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Your Ex is Not a Reliable Source of Info About You
This week I’ve had an influx of client’s going through a break-up. It’s heartbreaking because each person turns themselves inside and out...


Direct & Indirect Communication Styles
Differences in communication styles can create misunderstandings between people. They can break up marriages, cause conflict at work, and...


Does Your Directness Get You in Trouble?
Sometimes a person comes for counselling, not because they want to, but because someone else insists they improve their communication...


Does Someone in Your Life Lack Empathy and Insight?
Empathy and insight are vital to all social relationships and critical to our survival as a species. So why is it so hard to get...


3 Easy Steps to Self-Acceptance
For over thirty years self-esteem has been a top priority for educators and therapists. Despite efforts to improve self-esteem, it...


How to Survive a Verbal Attack
I was in line one day at the airport when a woman arrived late and wasn’t permitted to board. She screamed obscenities at the West Jet...


Is it Love or Anxiety?
Are you in an intense, passionate love affair with someone that’s bad for you but you can’t let go? Have you distanced yourself from a...


Set Boundaries Without Being Controlling
In any relationship we can find ourselves upset or annoyed by another person’s behaviour. Often an open dialogue is enough to resolve our...


Using Marijuana to Regulate Emotions
If you struggle with alcohol, you likely know the consequences of over indulging. If you use marijuana excessively, you probably think...


Validation: The Foundation of a Good Relationship
Validation is conveying to someone that you understand how he or she feels, thinks, or behaves. It doesn’t mean you feel the same way or...
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